Monday, September 12, 2011

How to Say If a Guy Is Cheating

By Alex Haight


When you believe your husband is cheating, it can be hard to think about anything else. Your thinking is consumed with all those what-if thoughts and you feel so troubled and shaken within. Part of you wants to find the truth, but another part is scared of what you may find.

You know that living a lie isn't worthwhile in the long run though, so you're determined to work out what's truly going on here. So here are a few bits of love advice and things to keep an eye out for to find out if your husband is cheating.

First, check his car. Specifically, check the passenger seat. Do you spot any strange women's hairs? Or do you notice any kind of perfume? These are gigantic clues that he's cheating on you. Most guys will cover the simple things when hiding the evidence, but based primarily on what number of people drive around automobiles flooded with fast food wrappers, don't be surprised if he forgets to clean the evidence out of his car.

Next, if he is saying he's working late, but you get the feeling that he isn't really working late, go ahead and trap him. It is not surprising that cheating husbands have used the excuse of working late to become involved in some "out of class activities." To find out what he's truly up to, you want to catch him. Drop by his work unannounced, just to surprise him with dinner on a day that he works late. If his colleagues say he left at 5:00 or don't have a clue where he is at, then you know something else is happening.

Last, plan a trip out of town for yourself. You don't really have to go anywhere yourself, just make him think you are. This is where you set your trap. If he believes you are going to be away, then there's a fair chance he'd use this as a chance to meet up with the other woman.

To trap him, all you need to do is hide a voice-activated audio recorder in the house. This can record any sound that he makes or any sound that any person he brings home will make. This can also pick up on telephone talks also , which is an extra bonus.

For added effect, also hide a recoding device in his automobile as well. In case he doesn't bring the other woman home, you can capture audio of their conversations as they drive around on their dates. This extra trick can catch plenty of men out there who think that they are being smart by not bringing the other lady home with them.

So , these are 1 or 2 tips that you can use to catch a cheating husband. I know that it can be really devastating to address cheating in your marriage, but in the long term, you will be much better off knowing the truth than to simply sit by idly and look the other way. So be brave and get to the root of what your man is doing.




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