Saturday, March 24, 2012

Advice for Parents Who Are Facing Difficult Situations

By Arianna Spinello


Teenagers aren't always the most pleasant people to be around. Parenting a teen may be the hardest thing you ever have to do. These years may be full of plenty of ups and downs. It can seem that all of your accumulated parenting skills and knowledge are put to the test as if it some kind of final exam. During the teen years your child will transition into adulthood and slowly distance themselves from the family unit.

Preparations must be made in the late teen years for what the teen will do with his or her life after high school graduation. Ultimately your child should have the final say so in what he or she will do with his or her life. Help your teen make informed decisions. Offer him or her support and advise as needed..

Of course all high schools have their various processes designed to help seniors make a wise decision. While your child's high school may offer some insight into possible career directions your son or daughter may take, as a parent, you are also qualified to offer guidance. When it comes to picking out a career and college, keep in mind your child's natural talents and interests.

The time spent preparing for college may be both exciting and full of anxiety. The majority of teens look forward to getting out on their own and making their own decisions.

However, some teens become quite fearful and anxious at the thought of being out in the world for the first time. Natural family bonds and fearfulness of the unknown are common contributors to anxiety over leaving home. You should try to ascertain where your child is with the idea of leaving home well before the time arrives. Take the time to have conversations with your child about all the exciting changes coming their way. Offer encouragement and support.

The task of boosting your child's confidence can be very difficult. Some children appear to have more confidence than others, which just seems to be a fact of life. Children with low self confidence do need extra attention and careful approach. Additionally, you must try to positively reinforce the child as much as you can. Each small victory these children experience will be good for them, even if it is only slightly useful. The best thing to do is structure their successes so that they can build up to bigger things in life.

High school graduation is an exciting time for the graduating teen as well as their family. Not all teens follow the same path. If your child chooses to leave home, this may be a difficult time for you as their parent. These feelings are normal for both the parent and the teen. Being a good parent isn't always easy. Be supportive of your child's choices even if you don't always agree with them.




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